It is a hotly debated topic, and one that will be discussed at a school readiness talk at Charlestown Library on Wednesday, September 2.

Hosted by St Joseph's Primary School's acting principal, the Q&A-style talk will explore what makes a child 'ready' for school.

Kim Moroney argues it is social and emotional maturity, not literacy and numeracy skills, that indicate a child is ready to transition into the school environment.

"I think in our society, parents feel an extreme amount of pressure to have their children ready at a certain level and the like before they start school," she said.

"But it's not about whether they know the alphabet or can count to 10. Those skills can be taught."

Miss Moroney said the talk would highlight the importance of not rushing a child into formal education.

In the public school system, children must turn five on or before July 31 to start school that year.

The cut-off date in the Catholic school system is May 31.

Miss Moroney said if parents weren't sure about sending their children to school, they should hold them back.

"Every child is different but it never hurts to have more life experience and more freedom of play.

"All of us deserve a childhood that's not rushed."

Once a parent decides, then begins the transition period.

Miss Moroney said parents should attend orientation days.

Most schools, like St Joseph's, have buddy systems, where incoming kindergarten students will meet their year 6 mentors once or twice before they start school and continue that partnership throughout the first year.

"It's great if the school has a buddy program because that links the child to a special friend. It's another familiar person who they feel comfortable with who can support them."

■School readiness talk, 10.30am Wednesday, September 2 at Charlestown Library. Phone ahead on 4943 5555.